THE VIRILITY SOLUTION: INITIATING CHANGE
It’s never easy to admit that your sexual relationship needs help. Modifying it takes work and time, but knowing those areas that are giving you and your partner trouble will make it easier. Of course, each relationship is unique unto itself, as unique as the two people involved in it. But there are several general points that everyone should keep in mind:
Always Keep the Lines of Communication Open
It’s paramount that you speak frankly with your partner about your condition. You must know whether each of you is supportive. Be honest about your feelings, sexual needs, and desires. If you are both in agreement that treatment is the right course, your partner needs to be part of the process.
Schedule Time for Love
Plan blocks of time, within your regular schedule, when you are both relaxed and comfortable. Recognize that as a man ages, he requires more stimulation in order to become aroused.
Partners who share the goal of regaining sexual function are most likely to succeed. By working with your partner and physician, you have the best chance of regaining complete sexual fulfillment.
Consider the Benefits of Counseling
If you find that you cannot satisfactorily resolve your problems, I urge the two of you to seek additional help. Sexual counseling with a psychiatrist, psychologist, or certified sex therapist can be an effective way to strengthen and deepen a relationship while regaining lost pleasure.
I am always gratified when my patients respond positively to ED medication. But it is even more satisfying when they and their partner are able to address—and solve—any other problems in their relationships.
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